Using stories to help children recognize influence, make kind choices, and stay true to themselves

Introduction

Peer pressure can be confusing — even for adults.
For kids, it can feel especially tricky to know when someone is being a friend… or trying to lead them in the wrong direction.

That’s why storytelling is such a powerful tool. Through characters and emotions, children can safely explore the impact of influence and learn to make confident, kind choices.

In The Lemon Experiment from Dream Tree Publishing, one simple story — and a single moldy lemon — helps kids understand how our environment and friends shape who we become.

Why Storytelling Works for Tough Topics

Children don’t always respond to lectures or warnings, but they naturally connect to stories.
Stories allow them to step into someone else’s shoes and experience a lesson through empathy, not fear.

According to child development research from the American Psychological Association, storytelling:

• Helps kids develop emotional awareness and critical thinking.
• Creates “safe distance” to discuss sensitive issues like peer pressure.
• Encourages self-reflection through identifying with characters.

When kids see themselves in a character like Leo from The Lemon Experiment, they begin to ask,

“What would I do if I were in that situation?”

That question sparks self-awareness — the foundation for healthy decision-making.

How to Use Stories to Talk About Peer Pressure

1️⃣ Read Aloud, Then Reflect

After reading a story like The Lemon Experiment, ask:

• “What kind of friend was Max at the beginning?”
• “How did Leo feel when he started changing?”
• “What helped him make a better choice?”

These open-ended questions invite empathy and critical thinking, not judgment.

2️⃣ Compare Real-Life Moments

Encourage children to think about times when they felt pressured to do something wrong or uncomfortable.
Help them connect the dots between Leo’s experience and their own.

“Have you ever had a friend who made you feel unsure about what’s right?”

3️⃣ Reinforce Positive Influence

Talk about how we can be the fresh lemon — the kind of person who brings out the best in others.
Use examples like helping a friend make a kind choice or standing up for someone being teased.

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4️⃣ Use the “Lemon Experiment” at Home or School

Do the activity together! Place a fresh lemon next to a moldy one for a few days, then discuss what happens.
It’s a tangible metaphor that makes influence visible — and unforgettable.

The Lesson That Lasts

When children learn through story and symbolism, lessons stick.
They understand that while they can’t control what others do, they can always choose who they become.

As The Lemon Experiment reminds us:

“People can be like lemons. If someone’s behavior isn’t healthy, it can rub off — but kindness can spread, too.”

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To help your child or students learn about friendship, confidence, and making good choices, explore
👉 The Lemon Experiment — available now from Dream Tree Publishing.

A simple story with a powerful message: the company we keep helps shape who we become.

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“Helping Children Build Confidence to Make Good Choices”

“The Science Behind the Lemon Experiment Activity”

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